We were designed for relationships. Life just gets loud.
We send the reminder. You make the contact.
Tell @You who matters. We send a quiet nudge by text to help you step back into reality. The actual connection is always yours.
This is the whole thing — a warm conversation in the Messages app you already use.
Built for connection. Grounded in reality.
You don't need another digital relationship. You need a quiet reminder to return to your real ones. No apps, no streaks, no artificial conversations.
Lives in your texts
The reminder comes exactly when it's needed, right where you already are.
Quiet by design
A gentle prompt to reach out. If you don't know what to say, reply for help finding the words. Otherwise, @You stays quiet.
Private and yours
Your relationships belong to you. @You never contacts the people you add, and your data is never sold.
AI is the servant. You are the story.
@You uses AI the way it was meant to be used — working quietly behind the scenes so you never have to think about it. It reads the moment. It finds the words when you need them. Then it gets out of the way.
How it works
Start with one
Add whoever came to mind first.
Choose a rhythm
Tell us when you want to be reminded.
You take it from there
@You sends the reminder. You call, text, or show up. The relationship stays exactly where it belongs — in your hands.
The people you love are a text away.
One quiet reminder is all it takes to step back into reality.
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